A New Year
| To say that 2019 was one hell of a ride is an understatement. If you follow my blog you know that my oldest son was incarcerated as part of the good ole boy network and the asinine mandatory minimum sentencing laws in Idaho, my dad passed away unexpectedly, both my old rescue dogs died, and I wrote a book about all this craziness. “Mad as Hell, A Mom’s Journey” I am thrilled to say I made it through and truly am grateful for all that I learned in 2019. Now don’t get me wrong, I don’t EVER want to repeat that shit, but I truly believe everything happens for a reason: 1. Love your family, this for me is not just blood relatives * Know who shows up when you need them and those that you only hear from when they need something * I am that ride or die momma for those I love 2. Have empathy and compassion- you never know what is happening in someone’s life * A kind word or smile truly makes a difference * Don’t judge until you have walked in someone else’s shoes * We are all 2 paychecks away from being homeless 3. Drugs are not a choice * Do some research before you open your mouth * Drugs take over the neurons in the brain (dopamine) * Not all addicts relapse or become dealers to support their habit * Recovery is possible * Not all addicts recover the same way If I have learned nothing else in 2019 it is that no one has your best interests at heart but you, research, rely on facts, and be an advocate for those that can’t do it for themselves. Oh and last, adopt a shelter dog, people are dumb, dogs are great and we all need some companionship and to feel needed. Here is my rescue, Punkin Spice Latte Starr |
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